• "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" --Mary Oliver

  • Your biggest challenge isn't someone else. It's the ache in your lungs and the burning in your legs, and the little voice inside you the yells, "can't!" But you don't listen; you just push harder and then you hear the voice whisper "can" and you realize the person you thought you were is no match for the one you really are.
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Holy cow! So bizarre when something like that happens involving someone you know... I'm so sorry - I hope he gets the treatment he needs...

That's very sad. I am sorry for your stepdad's family -- as Jodi said, hopefully this will get him the help he needs.

Oh my! That's so sad, I hope things can turn around for him now. It can be so hard for a family to deal with things like this.

I knew Erik too, he went to the same highschool as me but I didn't know him until we worked in Alaska together. If you have info on him now I would love to send him a few photo's of Alaska and some encouragement. I pray for you and your family. ~ Melody

I came across Erik's profile request for a penpal. I feel for your family and can relate to relative (s) that are/have been in need of treatment. Drugs really mess you up, and almost always involve stupidity; they also hurt the ones you love the most. My heart goes out to you, your family, Erik's children, and of course Erik. I look forward to coresponding with him in friendship.

Hi Tina,

That is fantastic that you are going to write to him, I am sure he will really appreciate it. He is a great guy who had a rough time of it growing up and just lost his way. Would love it if you would drop me a line via e-mail and let me know how things go.

-Amy

i think eriks dad was named boone and he was one of the nicest people ive ever know. he took me up mount rainer when i was just a kid. it was the highlight of me life. if their is anything i could ever do to help boone (dan) or his family i would love to help
john stimac (ballard)

John-

I will pass your comment along to Uncle Boone. He is still out hiking and climbing regularly- my dad Steve is his brother and went up Mt. Rainier, too- maybe you know him as well.

Anyhow, thanks for the kind comments. Please feel free to e-mail me and I'd be happy to put you in touch with the family.

Amy

i dont know erik,bt i soon hope to, as ive contactd him thru penpal request,,,,, i dont know a bout his story and what i have read sadens me, i trely hope i can be some laughter and light in his life and i wish hm th ebest of health........ to him,his family and especially his children,

I knew Erik as well and know the drugs brought this out in him. He excelled as an althlete and from what I know came from a good family. He unfortunately got mixed up with the wrong crowd (my brother being one of them) and got involved with things that had more power over him than he did. This in no way excuses the terror he caused, people he jepordized, and the hurt his family and friends are feeling. I pray for Erik and his family that he will not be pulled back into the darkness once he is released from jail for his and his childrens sake. God Bless

Ahh, once again, spewing your judgemental views... do YOU speak for the Lord? Heavenly Father loves all his children and wants them to come back to him. It is sad to me when someone is led astray by their lifestyle choices. This hit home with me because the perpetrator is my cousin and has had a difficult life- divorced parents, being pulled in different directions but he was always a kind and helpful person and has two beautiful children. Yes, he was led astray from the high road by doing drugs but you never know what people have been through or what has led them there.

I am not bitter and angry over a large family- I am angry at the media who treats them like a circus freak show, whitewashes their religious beliefs outt of their shows and parents who, without the consent of their children, pimp their children out to the media for money. Not very Godly- it would be one thing if they did it to spread the Gospel- but that doesn't seem to be where their priorities lie-- simply the vanity of showing off the bizarrities(to the rest of the nation) of raising a large family. Tell me, do you think that this family is encouraging others to raise their children in the light of the Heavenly Father and teaching them the plan of salvation? Mostly what we seem to hear about is "Wow, look at the freaks with the industrial kitchen!" "Wow, look at the freaks who dress like prairie girls!" The media is horrible and that is what I have railed against. I also do think that the Duggars have placed financial decisions over following the Lord in many areas. Sorry, we'll have to agree to disagree and attacking me and my family makes you judgemental which is what you are accusing me of and therefore you are a hypocrite.

I'll pray for you. Heavenly father just wants us to love everyone despite their shortcomings. In no where in this blog will you find me saying I am perfect- far from it, but I strive to always be better.

Thanks for your comments.

Amy-

Erik and I were very close and I think of him often. The "real" Erik is one of the most caring, talented, funny and interesting individuals I've ever spent time with. I remember him mentioning his Uncle Steve's name many times and your name as well, he said you and he were like best friends when you were younger and he valued your relationship tremendously. I've corresponded with him over the years since his arrest and detainment. I am considering a visit with him soon though it would be challenging for me for many reasons.

I came upon your site tonight and was touched to see the efforts you have gone through to bring attention to his unfortunate circumstance. He is lucky to have such a supportive family who all still hope the very best for him.

Well wishes,

M-C

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